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- What Must I Do to Be Saved?
- Why Doesn’t God Stop My Suffering When He Could?
- Is Jesus Really God?
- Can I Be a Gay Christian?
- Do I Have a Soulmate?
- What Should I Do When I’ve Been Hurt?
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We're Getting Married Anyway. Why Not Have Sex Now?
Because engaged isn't married. And God's design for sex has never been "the person you love" or "the person you're going to marry." It's your spouse.
I'm Single and I Don't Want to Be. What Do I Do?
Enjoy the season you're in. I know that's probably not what you wanted to hear, but hang with me.
How Fast Should a Relationship Move?
Slow enough that you know who they are before you're attached to how they make you feel.
How Do I Know If I'm Dating the Right Person?
Look for someone who loves Jesus and has the character to prove it. Chemistry matters, but feelings fade. Character lasts.
What Does the Bible Say About Homosexuality? Bisexuality? Is It a Sin?
Yes. Every time the Bible talks about sex between two men or two women, it calls it sin. That's true whether someone is attracted only to the same sex or to both. But hang with me, because being tempted isn't a sin, and God's standard for sex is the same for every one of us.
How Do I Break Free From Porn?
You can. I know, because I've been there. When I first came to Christ, two of the biggest things I had to leave were drugs and pornography.
Can I Be a Gay Christian?
This topic is highly debated in the world today, and there are plenty of voices who loudly proclaim to speak for God. When answering the question about homosexuality, we can’t look inward for answers, and we shouldn’t take a poll from culture; as Christians, we have to look to scripture alone.
What Is God’s Design for Sex and Marriage?
In a society that celebrates sexual liberation, it got me thinking… What would change in our world if everyone followed God’s design for sex and marriage? The answer is way more shocking than you may realize.
Do I Have a Soulmate?
No. And as much as I love my wife, she’s not my soulmate. Before you label me the least romantic person alive and begin a prayer chain for my poor wife, let me explain. I didn’t marry my soulmate, because there is no such thing.
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